My husband has rules. I'm not allowed to ask him what he did today. Not allowed to ask him what he did for lunch today. not allowed to ask how the search is going.
Consequently, we have nothing to talk about. Oh, he asks me where I'm going when I get up from the couch. When I get up to pee in the night. when I go to the kitchen, etc.
But, I can't ask him what he did today. I think it's guilt. He's sitting behind his computer for 8, or more, hours a day "following up on leads". Nothing, though. No prospects.
If I can't have open dialogue with my husband, really talk, then what's the point.
I'm sad and very lonely. It's awfully quiet in our house
